That’s right, I said it…

Change isn’t actually that scary, in fact, as humans, were meant to growth, develop, and change.

It’s in our very nature!

So why is it that so many people seem to struggle when it comes to shaking things up?!?!

Well, what if I told you it’s less about the change itself and more the fear of the unknown that is getting in the way.

That fear is your ego driving the ship, it’s the one that is creating that resistance, it’s the one that is keeping you feeling stuck in your old ways.

You see, it isn’t change that is the bad guy, it’s just the picture you’ve been painting for the better part of your life.

It’s like it’s been driven into your mind over and over, to keep things the same, to maintain the status quo, to fear what is new.

How often do you find yourself saying “I don’t like change! I like things the way they are.”

If you’re anything like me, you’ve probably been telling that same story to everybody and anyone. I used to do this all the time, so much so that if you even moved a book out of place I would have noticed.

And, if I’m being honest, I still struggle a bit with that sometimes, it’s perfectly natural to have some jitters when it comes to making some shifts.

All About Change

Let’s break it down, what is change really? And why do you fear it so much?

✔️Change allows for expansion, it encourages personal growth and development

✔️Change brings new people and experiences into your inner world.

✔️ Change gives you an opportunity to tap into the incredible possibilities available to you.

✔️ Change means you’re never stuck, you’re capable of doing things in a different way.

Once you start to realize that it’s the actual fear of the unknown that causes the resistance to change it becomes much easier to find freedom from that story.

Embrace change, welcome it, invite it in, what is the worse that could happen?

Sometimes you have to choose to change or relent and become okay with staying just as you are, forever.

You’re worth more than that.

What is something you wish you could change in your life but you’re scared to try it out, drop a comment below and share it with me.

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